well long story short i'm not 18 and i got banned from kageshi. Is there any way i can still hang out with you all?
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Get someone you like ( a kig) and ask them if they still would do a private cam with you on skype or whatever.
FB is probably the best place for that, although here should be a good reach too
Kiging isn't a wide spread as cosplay and unfortunately has some sexual fetishes associated with it
which means that service provider can be pretty strict.
I would advise against private camming with adults as its dangerous for them and a very bad habit for you to make.
...your parents will likely also be alot happier with it as well.